Where Fetishes Come From

 If you have a fetish, it might not be possible to understand where it comes from.  In fact, for most fetishes, the person has no idea what the source is.  You cannot altogether choose what you find to be arousing.  Instead, when people discover they have a fetish it typically takes them by surprise.  Besides various types of kinky fetishes like femdom fetishes or BDSM humiliation ones, there are people who have a fetish for silicone sex.  Anything made of silicone turns them on whether it be a medical device or a blonde sex doll.  Despite your best efforts to resist, at some point, most people discover that they have some kind of fetish.

 

There are psychologists who try to trace fetishes to childhood and the teenage years of development.  It has become a topic of academic study because there are fetishes that can negative health consequences.  It is safe to have a fetish for big breasts sex, doll sex, and curvy sex, but if you have a fetish for sharp objects against your genitalia it could be disastrous for your health.  On a yearly basis, there are dozens of people who get injured or even die while trying to explore their kinky sexual fetishes.  There are other dangerous fetishes such as necrophilia and coprophilia that are rightfully illegal because of the harm they cause to society.

Fetishes most often appear in the teenage years though some times they show up in young children.  Behavioral psychologists have tried to trace fetishes to classical conditioning.  There were experiments conducted years ago where psychologists managed to give men fetishes by pairing stimuli like squares, circles and even objects like pennies in a jar with pornography.  They successfully made many men get aroused at the mere sight of inanimate objects to some degree.  But they did not result in the powerful fetishes that we see driving many people to extremes.  This is why some psychologists think that conditioning alone is not enough.  They now believe that it requires conditioning at a young age plus some abnormality in the sexual learning process.  They attempt to explain this through the theory of sexual imprinting.

The theory of sexual imprinting says that people learn to recognize desirable sexual features such as breasts that are real, rough sex, large breasts, blonde hair, sexy hips, big ass Latinas and sexy torsos at childhood.  It may result from the child whose mind is underdeveloped misunderstanding and forming a narrow concept of a sexual object.  A proper understanding of a sexual object is finding something that can be mated with in order to reproduce and have offspring.  So a fetish for tit fucking that leads a man to not reproduce because he ejaculates over breasts is a misunderstanding of the purpose of sex.

There is also some evidence that fetishes result from differences in the brain.  Our nerves are interconnected in ways that allow us to stimulate our sexual organs through the feet.  Some neurologists think this is the reason why it is common for there to be foot fetishes.  It is because the neurons and neural pathways between the feet and the genital pleasure centers get crossed with each other.

Most sexual fetishes don’t need to be treated.  In fact, they should be celebrated.  Indulging in a sexual fetish can be a source of great satisfaction in life as long as it is practiced safely.  It also becomes a problem when a fetish is so powerful that it impairs normal function.  If you have a fetish for girls in high school and you are in your 30s that is a fetish that psychologists might suggest you get treatment for because if you express these attitudes publicly it could ruin your life and make other people feel uncomfortable. Of course, we can help you with that by offering some of the best teen sex dolls available on the market.

If you have a fetish for public urination like many people also do, then you should also seek treatment because it can get you arrested. But if your passion is for black sex dolls, yummy Asian girls, solo females masturbating on camera, curly hair, sex dolls that are Japanese, or secretary sex dolls, there is no need to seek treatment.  These would be fetishes that it is recommended for you to indulge in your heart’s content and that can provide you with satisfaction for the rest of your life.